Horrible site
This is not the "world's best personals website"!
As a genetic female and not a fake or a scammer, I will say to the men on here complaining: Not everyone wants to meet a random man right off the bat. It is not safe to meet men all day and night, and travel all over the city and the state. Women face sexual assault, physical assault and verbal assault.
We want to talk to men to get to know them as best as we can and this takes time.
As a female, I have had 20 years experience with men. Men feel like they are entitled to sexual services from women. You are not. So if you haven't found a woman who wants to meet you at your house, inside your car or at a motel- boo hoo, we don't owe you sex.
As a woman on that site, I am amazed at the dozens of messages from men that include up to 6 paragraphs of sexual roleplay messages- what they want to do to my naked body and how they want me to service them sexually- before even asking my name and getting to know anything about me. Or I get dozens of requests from men to see nudes or sexual pictures. Men treat this like this is their personal porn website- to get free sexual content from women. When you say no thank you, not interested, they will push and push and push to meet or get verbally abusive.
I get messages from men aged 18 to 75 and who live in all cities, all states and all countries from all around the world. All they do is ask for nudes and then talk to me in a sexually graphic manner. I get that this is a hook up site but please men, have some manners, be polite and treat the women with respect and dignity and maybe, just maybe, you'll get lucky and have mutually consensual sex with a good woman. Stop complaining about how everyone is a bot and fake and scammer!!
As to the site itself, they have a tipping feature on the site, where you can get tips for live camming and photos. $1 is equal to 100 credits. When you get 5,000 credits, you can cash out and Fling will send you the money- but they take 50% of it.
If you talk to the men and ask them for tips, some will get offended and report you to site admin for "solicitation" and "pay to play" and the site admin will not listen to you or believe your side of the story.
They will also flag you for exchanging offsite chat app information and phone numbers, which everyone does.
Men will also get angry and verbally abusive if you say you are not interested in meeting up with them. They will also report you to site admin for "being rude". It's not "rude" when women refuse to sleep with you. Learn about consent and get over rejection.
Site admin will refuse to listen to your side of the story. Some drug addict wanted me to do mushrooms and acid with him and have sex with him but when I said no, he reported me for prostitution but site admin ignored what he wrote. I see how it is!
Date of experience: April 15, 2023